Among the 16 interviewees, there are 8 males and 8 females, aged between 34 and 72, and the duration of illness is between 1 and 4 years. Table 2 shows other basic information of interviewees. Cancer patients' attitudes towards death can be divided into three types: pessimism, optimism, and transcendental enjoyment. For the needs of good death, we have identified four themes (including nine sub-themes): (1) physiological needs (to relieve physical pain); (2) Psychological needs (choice of autonomy, maintenance of dignity, satisfaction of wishes, family expectations, arrangements for matters related to death); (3) Spiritual needs (inner comfort); (4) Social needs (economic situation, medical system support).
Table 2
Basic information of 16 respondents
Information code
|
Gender
|
Age
|
Diagnose
|
Time of diagnosis (year)
|
Marital Status
|
educational background
|
Occupation
|
Religion
|
N.1
|
male
|
56
|
STAD
|
3
|
In marriage
|
BA
|
labour
|
No
|
N.2
|
male
|
34
|
COAD
|
2
|
unmarried
|
MS
|
Comp.Engr
|
No
|
N.3
|
female
|
52
|
ESCA
|
3
|
In marriage
|
post-secondary
|
merchant
|
No
|
N.4
|
male
|
65
|
STAD
|
3
|
Funeral
|
post-secondary
|
truck driver
|
No
|
N.5
|
female
|
72
|
COADREAD
|
2
|
Funeral
|
D.LITT
|
prof.
|
No
|
N.6
|
male
|
53
|
STAD
|
3
|
In marriage
|
post-secondary
|
Farmer
|
No
|
N.7
|
female
|
47
|
BRCA
|
3
|
divorce
|
LLM
|
lawyer
|
No
|
N.8
|
female
|
67
|
LUAD
|
4
|
In marriage
|
post-secondary
|
merchant
|
No
|
N.9
|
female
|
52
|
ESCA
|
1
|
In marriage
|
BA
|
high school teacher
|
No
|
N.10
|
male
|
37
|
DLBC
|
3
|
In marriage
|
BS
|
labour
|
No
|
N.11
|
female
|
49
|
BRCA
|
4
|
In marriage
|
post-secondary
|
labour
|
No
|
N.12
|
male
|
63
|
LIHC
|
3
|
In marriage
|
post-secondary
|
merchant
|
No
|
N.13
|
male
|
51
|
LUSC
|
4
|
In marriage
|
post-secondary
|
labour
|
No
|
N.14
|
female
|
47
|
LIHC
|
2
|
In marriage
|
BA
|
civil servant
|
No
|
N.15
|
male
|
63
|
STAD
|
3
|
In marriage
|
BA
|
civil servant
|
No
|
N.16
|
female
|
44
|
THYM
|
3
|
In marriage
|
BA
|
accountant
|
No
|
Attitude of cancer patients toward death
This study found that the vast majority of patients with cancers can accept death as a necessary process of life. A few patients are pessimistic, indicating that they can't accept death, while others have a complex mentality of acceptance and hope. Some patients believe that the proper hope of survival can be transformed into internal motivation, and the unfinished wish can be turned into action.
1)Calm
The study found that some patients can accept death calmly, and five patients used the descriptions of "normal", "acceptable" and "indifferent" when talking about their attitudes towards death, and considered that death was an inevitable natural law, neither pessimistic nor positive. N11: "Life and death are things we can't decide. It's a very normal thing." N4: "I don't care anyway. What can I do if I live for a thousand years?" N5 "Human death is an objective natural law, and each of us should accept it".
2) Pessimistic
Three patients used the descriptions of "lost" and "unacceptable" when talking about their attitude towards death, and one patient cried during the interview. N7: "I feel lost. I don't want to die but there's nothing I can do." N2: "Until now, I can't accept the fact that I'm going to die. I suddenly got this disease at such a young age, and I feel everything is sudden." N16 (crying) "Oh, my God! What did I do wrong? Why did God let me die at a young age! "
3) The complex psychology of acceptance and hope
Eight patients can be classified into this category. These patients said that they would be more active in treatment and try their best to survive if the economic conditions permit. Some patients with better symptom control still expect miracles and hope to prolong their lives.
N3: "Our family's condition is not bad. First, we don't have to consider economic problems. Second, we want to have a high quality of life. Before the onset of illness, we often do sports and travel. I just hope that we can get all the treatments and live like normal people." N14: "Every day I live now is what I earn. I just want to make my daily life meaningful. This is what I am. I want to find ways to face something positively." N: "Although I know that I have cancer, now medicine is developed, and many new drugs are prescribed every year. Doctors all say that it is a chronic disease. Maybe like some patients, I will be fine for 10 or 20 years."
Need for good death
Theme 1: Physical needs
The vast majority of patients said that the most important problem to solve at this stage is to reduce the physical pain, hope that at the end of life pain, dyspnea and other symptoms can be effectively controlled.
N1: "I don't want so much pain. If possible, I really want to be euthanized. A needle can solve the problem without so much pain. Now 12 Dorregis barely manage the pain." N7: "At present, the most need to analgesia, not so hard can, most hope to walk comfortably." N12: "Most want to control the pain, a good sleep, pain you really wish to die, too uncomfortable."
Theme 2: Psychological needs
Choice of autonomy
Patients want to be able to take control of their own medical decisions, have the right to determine their own fate, and avoid overtreatment. N1: "I don't want to be intubated. There's no point in doing that. It'll only add to my pain." N8: "Oxygen can be given, fluids can be given to maintain nutrition. Don't put me on a ventilator, and don't leave a lot of tubes on me. I want to be able to leave with dignity." N11: "I hope to let nature take its course, don't do so many meaningless things, salvage can not come back waste money and ugly"
A small number of patients believe that we should try our best to save lives. N3: "We have money, we can do as much as we can, in case we can succeed."
To maintain the dignity
Most of the patients expressed their gratitude to their families for their support and care, but also felt guilty and uneasy about increasing the burden of family economy and care after the disease. They did not want to become a burden to their families. They hoped that they could take care of their daily lives independently and maintain the minimum dignity of being human as normal people. N7: "I don't want to trouble my family if I can. I asked an escort if I was in a bad state recently. I don't want to ring the bell for him if I don't fall down." N10: "As a man looking at his wife so hard to take care of the children I feel particularly guilty, I have no income now, how bashful to trouble the family again" N15: "My family in order to see a doctor spent a lot of money, my son is not easy I this father's heart know, can not trouble him will not trouble him."
Meet the desire
Patients' wishes before dying can be achieved, without regret, can make patients tend to be peaceful and satisfied, improve the quality of life at the last stage. N3: "I have been doing business all my life, and I have never had a family trip together. I really hope that when the epidemic is over, my family can go to Inner Mongolia to see the grassland." N4: "We want to get together with our former comrades. We go to a party in a city every year. This year we hope to have a chance to attend." N13: "I really want to see my daughter get married! I'll be happy to see her marry and have someone take care of me! '
Family hope
Influenced by thousands of years of Confucian culture, Chinese people's concept of family is deeply rooted in their bone marrow. Most patients weaken their personal roles, and their social relations focus on family. Therefore, even when life is about to end, whether the family members can avoid internal conflicts, forget the pain, and live an active and independent life directly affects whether they can achieve good death. N1: "I'm more worried about my mother. She doesn't know I have cancer yet, and I'm the only son she has." N6: "I'm most worried about my wife. N16: "I don't trust my son. He is about to take the college entrance examination. I am really worried that my sudden death will affect his life."
Arrangements for death related matters
Death is a very serious matter in traditional Chinese culture. In this study, all patients made rigorous and comprehensive arrangements for death-related matters, including the distribution of inheritance, funeral rituals, the choice of death place and the disposal of the body.
N5: "I have made my will and told them not to have a funeral or buy me a plot and to scatter my ashes at sea." N15: "I have told you, all the property to my son, to bury me in the ancestral grave." Some patients are afraid that their spouses and children cannot accept the fact that their loved ones are about to leave, so they will turn to their brothers to deal with their future affairs. N16: "I have authorized my brother to arrange my affairs. I told him to take my ashes back to Anhui (another province in China) if I die." N9: "I left everything to my eldest brother. I didn't tell my daughter, for fear of affecting her mood."
Theme 3: Spiritual needs
All the patients in this study expressed that they would like to communicate more with their families and patients, share their physical and mental feelings and discuss their illness with medical staff. N15: "Before and the wife's character is not always noisy, now just know the precious family in the side, in the heart or hope she can come to see me more, talk." N8: "I often comfort other patients and tell them not to be afraid, they should enjoy their lives and don't leave regrets. In the process of communication, I feel that my sharing can help others, which is quite satisfying and makes me have a deeper thinking about life." N3: "You (medical staff) work very hard and are busy like a top every day. Today, I am really happy to sit down and chat and listen to our nagging. I hope we can have more such opportunities in the future."
Theme 4: Social needs
State of the economy
Due to the long course of cancer and repeated hospital admissions, patients face great financial pressure, and they have to consider financial issues when choosing treatment and care options. N9: "We treat diseases in different places, and the social security reimbursement rate is very low. Like the latest immunotherapy, most of them are self-funded and very expensive, so there is no money for further treatment when we see the hope." N10: "After I got sick, I couldn't work. I didn't have a source of income. The mortgage on our house hasn't been paid off.
Health policy
The lack of basic health facilities and the shortage of hospital beds have caused a lot of distress to patients. N1: "I have a catheter on my body. Every time I come to our hospital for maintenance, I have to ask my son to bring me by car. Otherwise, I have to take two hours by car. N7: "Our hospital is so good, beds are very tight, almost every time I am admitted to the hospital, I have to wait and can't do anything about it. Sometimes I am really helpless. The community hospital can't solve my problem, and my family won't deal with it at home."