Psychosocial difficulties
The DLD sample scored significantly higher on all psychosocial statements than the typical sample (ps < .05; see Fig. 1). The majority of both the DLD sample and typical sample reported their children ‘experiencing anxiety’ (DLD = 80.7%; typical = 58.0%). Only a minority of the typical sample reported their child experiencing any of the other psychosocial difficulties listed (12.0%-40.0%). In comparison, a majority of the DLD sample reported their child experiencing all but one of the psychosocial difficulties (54.4%-80.7%): ‘sleep problems’ (45.6%).
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The largest differences between DLD and typically developing sample are ‘struggles to understand the intention of others’ (difference = 51.7%), ‘lacks awareness of others’ (difference = 45.6%), ‘is often excluded from social situations’ (difference = 44.1%) and ‘requires routine/sameness’ (difference = 43.4%).
Qualitative insights
All mothers agreed that anxiety, routined behaviours and emotion dysregulation were the most problematic for their child. Parents particularly described anxiety behaviourally, through incessant worrying, nail biting (Ali), as well as seeking reassurance and company:
“Even now if I’m making dinner in the kitchen [Femi] just has to come and stand beside me, as he feels like he hasn’t been around me that much, if he’s been playing in the living room or whatever… and then if I’m cleaning the kitchen afterwards, he’s just like ‘when are you going to come and sit with me, when are you coming’. So yeah he likes someone to be present with him and I would say that’s a bit of a part of anxiety for him – he doesn’t like being by himself.” (Josephine)
Iris described how Dimo has learnt to manage his worries through the counselling he has accessed over the last year:
He has learnt he can overcome situations, there is no need to be anxious all the time. [The worries] certainly have not gone. I think he always will be a worrier, but he has absolutely learnt to deal with them better… he tends to brood and to dwell on things, so he needs to be snapped out of it, either by himself, or if you tell him. So, he is really making that effort not to brood… since he has learnt that it’s okay to talk about it, he now increasingly comes to me when there is a worry. So he is not just bottling it up.
Preference for routine was experienced by all children of the mothers that were interviewed, however the reasons behind this appeared to differ. Josephine suggested ‘requires routine and sameness’ would come equal to ‘anxiety’ for her six-year-old, as she feels they are so inter-linked: “A lot of [Femi’s] routined behaviours can be a ‘worry’ thing”. Similarly, Liz noticed that when anything at school changes, or there’s a change to Ali’s routine, there’s huge upset, and she focusses on tidying her room and ordering her teddies to make her feel better:
Anything out of the norm that she’s not fully sure of what’s happening, or what it will look like… She’s started to worry about finishing this year and going back up to a new teacher in the year above… I know now if she’s organising her toys I just call school and say we’re going to be late. You can’t rush her or stop her, otherwise there’s a full-blown meltdown.
For Iris, she felt Dimo simply found routine easier. He didn’t have any emotional response to routine changing, but was simply more likely to forget what he was meant to be doing: “He’s happy to go along with whatever, but the think he struggles with is to remember a change in routine… it just goes over his head”.
Both Helen and Iris were surprised to see ‘lacks awareness of others’ on the list. They both described their children as “actually very empathetic”, describing how:
There was a new child that joined [school] during or after Covid, so a very tricky situation for that child, and it has been specifically pointed out that it was Dimo that was specifically going over to that child and making sure they were included and welcomed. I was over the moon.
Helen thought perhaps this lack of awareness of others was in fact lack of self-awareness:
He’s very aware of other people if they are sad, but he’s totally unaware of the impact he has on other people… for example, if I had a row with his sister, he would be completely able to observe that and understand what had happened and why we might be upset, but he basically has zero self-awareness… in a social situation with peers he makes odd noises and sort of talks to himself… he literally couldn’t care less that other people might think that’s a bit odd
Similarly, Iris and Josephine questioned whether or not the ‘struggle to understand the intention of others’ could be due to the relative immaturity of their children, when compared to their typically developing peers. Josephine described how its others’ deceit that Femi particularly struggles to understand:
At school he’s got in trouble before from doing something that he knows he’s not supposed to do it, but because other people are, and they’re his friends, he’s just like ‘yeah but my friends are doing it’, and the teacher says, ‘but is that right’, and he says ‘no, but my friends are doing it’… there’s no connection there at all…I know his friends know that that’s wrong and they’re trying to get him to follow, and he will just follow. He’s quite a sheep.
Helen was surprised to see that ‘is often excluded from social situations’ was so low down. She described how last summer she “invited every child possible for a playdate, and it just never gets reciprocated”. She also described how this has only become more challenging as Joe has become older; it is no longer up to the parents to organise playdates and the children invite who they want, meaning Joe is always left out.
The two mothers of the younger children (Josephine and Liz) mentioned being surprised that “sensory sensitivity” wasn’t on the list of psychosocial difficulties. Josephine described how Femi: “Always has to be touching things, I’ve had to get him a lot of fidget things for him to play with, to keep him occupied… it’s the physical touch, he’s always wanting to feel people”. He also appeared to prefer noise and loudness, for example loud crowds rather than quiet streets. Lack of auditory stimulation made Femi feel “uncertain”:
He likes constant noise, and something going on… he stomps around constantly… he always has to have some sort of noise, the volume control in his voice sometimes, I’m right beside him, I don’t know why, I find it so funny, he’s just like ‘AND THEN!’, I say ‘mummy can hear you, can we maybe bring it down a little bit… but then it goes down like 0.5%” You have to keep asking him.
In contrast, Ali has become very selective with her clothing, and will now only wear soft tracksuit bottoms and tops, no socks and doesn’t like the feeling of her school shirt tucked into her skirt. These parents wondered whether it might be a “comfort thing” (Josephine), in response to feeling anxious or uneasy, though it was hard to pinpoint.
Psychosocial scores and coping mechanisms
Across the psychosocial scales, the DLD group had significantly higher rates of anxiety on all subscales compared to the typical sample. The largest significant difference was for social anxiety (p < 0.003, see Table 3) and separation anxiety p < 0.003), followed by generalised anxiety (p < 0.003). Similarly, the DLD group also had significantly higher rates of IUS on both subscales than the typically developing group (ps < 0.003) as well as emotion dysregulation (p < 0.003) and insistence on sameness (p < 0.003), all with large effect sizes (d = 1.00-1.18).
Table 3
Differences between groups on symptoms of anxiety, intolerance of uncertainty, emotion regulation, insistence on sameness, parent stress and family coping styles.
| | Typical Sample | DLD Sample | Effect size |
M (SD) | Range | M (SD) | Range | Cohen’s d |
SCAS-P | Total | 11.7 (10.0) | 0–50 | 23.9 (15.3) | 0–54 | 0.94* |
GAD | 3.2 (2.8) | 0–12 | 6.1 (4.5) | 0–16 | 0.76* |
SAD | 3.6 (3.3) | 0–13 | 8.0 (5.3) | 0–18 | 0.98* |
OCD | 1.5 (2.9) | 0–14 | 2.8 (3.0) | 0–13 | 0.43 |
Separation | 3.3 (3.1) | 0–12 | 7.1 (5.2) | 0–18 | 0.88* |
IUS | Total | 19.6 (6.7) | 12–39 | 30.3 (10.8) | 12–55 | 1.18* |
Prospective | 11.8 (4.3) | 7–24 | 17.9 (6.9) | 7–32 | 1.05* |
Inhibitory | 7.8 (3.1) | 5–17 | 12.6 (4.8) | 5–25 | 1.17* |
EmReg | Total | 10.9 (3.3) | 7–21 | 15.1 (4.7) | 7–24 | 1.05* |
ISS | Total | 2.3 (3.1) | 0–18 | 7.2 (6.2) | 0–24 | 1.00* |
PSS | Total | 37.3 (9.5) | 21–63 | 37.9 (11.3) | 18–61 | 0.06 |
FPSC | Affirming | 11.7 (2.3) | 5–15 | 12.2 (2.5) | 5–15 | 0.21 |
Incendiary | 4.2 (2.7) | 0–9 | 4.8 (2.9) | 0–13 | 0.20 |
BCOPE | Adaptive | 21.0 (4.7) | 9–30 | 25.4 (5.6) | 13–34 | 0.85* |
Maladaptive | 13.2 (4.0) | 8–28 | 14.2 (3.8) | 8–29 | 0.24 |
Alternative | 6.7 (1.7) | 5–11 | 6.4 (2.5) | 2–16 | -0.14 |
*Significant difference between groups at p < .003 (Bonferroni adjustment). |
NB: the comparator group is the typical sample, meaning a positive d value indicates the DLD group displayed more of those symptoms. |
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There was no significant difference across groups for parenting stress (p = 0.40), communication styles (ps = 0.17–0.18) or either maladaptive (p = 0.13) or alternative coping (p = 0.27). Parents of the DLD group did, however, report significantly higher use of adaptive coping styles than those of typically developing children (p < 0.003).
Tables 4 and 5 present the Pearson’s correlations between age, income and psychosocial variables for the DLD sample and typical sample, respectively.
Table 4
Pearson correlations between study variables for children with DLD.
| Age | Income | GAD | SAD | OCD | Separation | Anxiety Total | IUS Total | Emotion Regulation | RBQ-ISS | PSS | FPSC Affirming | FPSC Incendiary | BCOPE Adaptive | BCOPE Maladaptive | BCOPE Passive |
Age | -- | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |
Income | .08 | -- | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |
GAD | .36* | − .10 | -- | | | | | | | | | | | | | |
SAD | .39* | − .13 | .73* | -- | | | | | | | | | | | | |
OCD | .23 | .09 | .54* | .48* | -- | | | | | | | | | | | |
Separation | .15 | − .13 | .69* | .70* | .47* | -- | | | | | | | | | | |
Anxiety Total | .34 | − .10 | .89* | .89* | .68* | .88* | -- | | | | | | | | | |
IUS Total | .25 | − .09 | .56* | .70* | .59* | .63* | .74* | -- | | | | | | | | |
ER | − .08 | − .21 | .48* | .46* | .33 | .63* | .59* | .63* | -- | | | | | | | |
RBQ-ISS | .15 | − .14 | .49* | .55* | .61* | .56* | .65* | .79* | .62* | -- | | | | | | |
PSS | − .02 | − .32 | − .18 | − .08 | − .17 | − .02 | − .12 | .04 | .15 | − .10 | -- | | | | | |
FPSC-A | − .04 | .33 | .11 | .02 | − .05 | .09 | .06 | − .04 | − .10 | − .04 | − .57* | -- | | | | |
FPSC-I | .13 | − .30 | − .04 | .04 | .10 | − .07 | − .01 | .01 | .14 | .02 | .53* | − .74* | -- | | | |
BCOPE-Ad | .06 | .37 | .11 | .14 | .10 | .10 | .13 | .11 | .01 | − .05 | − .29 | .42* | − .42 | -- | | |
BCOPE-M | .24 | − .27 | .16 | .06 | .02 | .02 | .08 | .02 | .14 | − .09 | .54* | − .32 | .45* | − .05 | -- | |
BCOPE-Al | − .16 | − .13 | − .24 | − .25 | − .26 | − .14 | − .25 | − .28 | − .10 | − .20 | .28 | − .18 | .20 | − .12 | .04 | -- |
* Significant difference between groups at p < .003 (Bonferroni adjustment). |
NB: GAD = Generalised Anxiety Disorder symptoms, SAD = Social Anxiety Disorder symptoms, OCD = Obsessive Compulsive Disorder symptoms, IUS = Intolerance of Uncertainty Scale, ER = Emotion Regulation, RBQ-ISS = Routined Behaviour Questionnaire- Insistence on Sameness Subscale, PSS = Parent Stress Scale, FPSC-A = Family Problem Solving Communication Index-Affirmatory, FPSC-I = Family Problem Solving Communication Index-Incendiary, BCOPE-Ad = Brief Coping Orientation to Problems Experienced-Adaptive, BCOPE-M = Brief Coping Orientation to Problems Experienced-Maladaptive, BCOPE-Al = Brief Coping Orientation to Problems Experienced-Alternative. |
Table 5
Pearson correlations between study variables for typically developing children.
| Age | Income | GAD | SAD | OCD | Separation | Anxiety Total | IUS Total | Emotion Regulation | RBQ-ISS | PSS | FPSC Affirming | FPSC Incendiary | BCOPE Adaptive | BCOPE Maladaptive | BCOPE Passive |
Age | -- | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |
Income | − .18 | -- | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |
GAD | − .11 | − .07 | -- | | | | | | | | | | | | | |
SAD | − .02 | − .20 | .68* | -- | | | | | | | | | | | | |
OCD | − .02 | − .10 | .77* | .47* | -- | | | | | | | | | | | |
Separation | − .25 | .11 | .63* | .61* | .39* | -- | | | | | | | | | | |
Anxiety Total | − .12 | − .09 | .92* | .84* | .78* | .79* | -- | | | | | | | | | |
IUS Total | .00 | − .34 | .60* | .68* | .50* | .48* | .70* | -- | | | | | | | | |
ER | − .03 | − .35 | .14 | .36 | .11 | .12 | .23 | .34 | -- | | | | | | | |
RBQ-ISS | − .04 | .17 | .65* | .57* | .77* | .54* | .79* | .55* | .27 | -- | | | | | | |
PSS | − .20 | .07 | .21 | .29 | .27 | .11 | .27 | .11 | .38 | .45* | -- | | | | | |
FPSC-A | .37 | − .07 | − .41* | − .40* | − .28 | − .49* | − .49* | − .43* | − .33 | − .53* | − .56* | -- | | | | |
FPSC-I | − .19 | .03 | .23 | .17 | .17 | .25 | .25 | .37 | .44* | .31 | .45* | − .71* | -- | | | |
BCOPE-Ad | − .17 | − .05 | .33 | − .01 | .24 | .31 | .27 | .33 | .11 | .13 | .05 | − .22 | .17 | -- | | |
BCOPE-M | − .34 | .00 | .49* | .53* | .48* | .44* | .06* | .53* | .42* | .65* | .62* | − .67* | .52* | .30 | -- | |
BCOPE-Al | − .18 | .18 | − .01 | − .05 | − .02 | .07 | .00 | − .03 | − .04 | .09 | .20 | .00 | .08 | .12 | .36 | -- |
*significant difference between groups at p < .003 (Bonferroni adjustment). |
NB: GAD = Generalised Anxiety Disorder symptoms, SAD = Social Anxiety Disorder symptoms, OCD = Obsessive Compulsive Disorder symptoms, IUS = Intolerance of Uncertainty Scale, ER = Emotion Regulation, RBQ-ISS = Routined Behaviour Questionnaire- Insistence on Sameness Subscale, PSS = Parent Stress Scale, FPSC-A = Family Problem Solving Communication Index-Affirmatory, FPSC-I = Family Problem Solving Communication Index-Incendiary, BCOPE-Ad = Brief Coping Orientation to Problems Experienced-Adaptive, BCOPE-M = Brief Coping Orientation to Problems Experienced-Maladaptive, BCOPE-Al = Brief Coping Orientation to Problems Experienced-Alternative. |
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Amongst the DLD sample, there was a moderate positive correlation between age and total anxiety symptoms (r = 0.34; older age indicated higher rate of anxiety), though none of the correlations reached the Bonferroni adjusted significance level (ps = 0.006–0.315). Higher IU had the strongest correlation with higher scores on the anxiety subscales (rs = 0.56–0.74, ps < 0.003), particularly between social anxiety and the inhibitory subscale of the IUS (r = 0.72, p < 0.003). Higher preference for insistence on sameness also had a strong correlation with higher IU (r = 0.79, p < 0.003), as well as a moderate to strong correlation with all anxiety subscales (rs = 0.49–0.61, ps < 0.003), particularly for social anxiety (r = 0.55), separation anxiety (r = 0.56) and OCD (r = 0.61). Higher emotion dysregulation had significant correlations with higher generalised anxiety (r = 0.48, p < 0.003), social anxiety (r = 0.46, p < 0.003), and, most strongly, separation anxiety scores (r = 0.63, p < 0.003), but not OCD (r = 0.33, p = 0.02). ER, insistence on sameness and IU all had strong, positive and significant correlations with one another (r = 0.62–0.79, ps < 0.003).
For the typical sample, there was no significant correlation between age and anxiety. Similar to the DLD sample, there was also a moderate to strong positive corelation between higher IU and higher anxiety across all subscales (r = 0.48–0.68, ps < 0.003). This relationship was particularly strong between inhibitory IU and total anxiety (r = 0.80, p < 0.003), as well as both generalised (r = 0.76, p < 0.003) and social anxiety subscales (r = 0.73, p < 0.003). Unlike the DLD sample, there was no significant correlation found between ER and either insistence on sameness (r = 0.27, p = 0.09) or IU (r = 0.34, p = 0.03), but there was a significant correlation between higher IU and increased preference for insistence on sameness (r = 0.55, p < 0.003).
There was no significant correlation between the anxiety scales and either parenting stress, or family communication styles within the DLD sample. Amongst the typical sample, however, both family communication styles and coping mechanisms had moderate to strong correlations with anxiety. An affirming communication style was significantly negatively correlated with separation anxiety (r=-0.49, p = 0.001) as well as total anxiety (r=-0.49, p = 0.001) and insistence on sameness (r=-0.53, p < 0.003); more affirming communication correlated with lower anxiety, and insistence on sameness. Conversely, maladaptive coping styles were significantly positively correlated with total anxiety (rs = 0.48–0.60, ps < 0.003); using more maladaptive coping strategies correlated with increased experiences of anxiety. Increased parent stress was also significantly positively correlated with increased insistence on sameness (r = 0.45, p = 0.003), as well as increased incendiary communication (r = 0.45, p < 0.003) and maladaptive coping styles (r = 0.62, p < 0.003).
The relationship between DLD and anxiety: Model 1
Following the identification of a significant relationship between anxiety and DLD diagnosis, the first mediation model set out to explore the potential contributors towards this relationship. As IU and ER were both found to have strong significant correlations with both variables, they were entered into the model as potential mediators.
There was a significant total effect of DLD diagnosis on anxiety symptoms (p < 0.001, β = 12.2, SE = 2.6, LLCI = 6.9, ULCI = 17.5). When IU and ER were kept constant, DLD diagnosis was able to account for 19.5% of the variance in anxiety symptoms. Nonetheless, when the potential mediators were included (IU and ER), the model’s predictive power increased to 63.6% (p < 0.001); as a result of entering these mediators into the model, DLD diagnosis lost all its predictive power (β = 0.7, p = 0.76). This final model, depicted in Fig. 2, demonstrates the strong mediating effect of IU in explaining the relationship between DLD diagnosis and anxiety (z = 4.46, p < 0.001). Although ER was significantly predicted by DLD diagnosis (β = 4.2, p < 0.001), it was not identified as a mediator due to its lack of significance in predicting anxiety (β = 0.4, p = 0.14).
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Qualitative insights
When presented with this model, parents were very enthused by it: “That is just Femi, that should be the tagline beneath his name… 100% you’ve nailed it… that makes perfect sense, it’s nice to see because it’s what I perhaps can’t articulate, but it’s so obvious.” (Josephine). Helen described how:
“For children like Joe, there is so little that they are able to control in life… without knowing what is expected of them or what’s happening, the fear of overload… I mean it must be terrifying, it must be like being partially sighted and expected to walk your way through a city you’ve never been to”.
Helen went on to describe a pattern that Joe found himself in during the last year, “obsessing” over what happens in the afterlife, or what he refers to as “the spirit world”. She understood it as him trying to create some security, when the afterlife is perhaps the most unknown and uncontrollable phenomenon. She described how it almost drove her “nuts” as, for a year, “every evening he would have to rehearse a script with me around what will be in the spirit world… he had a whole written list of what he wanted…what it will look like”. Josephine and Liz also described how they believe their children’s intolerances of uncertainty also contribute to their routined behaviours and preferences for sameness.
For Iris, Model 1 made sense because she understood how Dimo’s DLD led to his feeling of uncertainty over day-to-day activities, an exhaustion of this uncertainty and thus resultant anxiety: “the fact that things go over his head, that is causing a certain level of uncertainty, because he can’t grasp it. And then of course it is only logical to slip into anxiety.” However, she also described how, for Dimo, this was experienced quite internally, and didn’t appear to drive his behaviours. For example, he never appears to seek out more information about upcoming situations in a proactive bid to feel more certain: “Not in a way of ‘if you don’t tell me what we’re doing tomorrow I am dreading tomorrow’”.
The relationship between DLD and social frustration: Model 2
On confirming that the DLD group experienced significantly higher levels of social frustration than typical group, the second mediation model set out to explore the potential effects of anxiety and ER on the relationship between DLD diagnosis and social frustration.
There was a significant total effect of DLD diagnosis on social frustration (p < 0.001, β = 1.98, SE = 2.5, LLCI = 1.5, ULCI = 2.5). When anxiety and ER were kept constant, DLD diagnosis was able to account for 40.4% of the variance in social frustration. When the potential mediators were included (anxiety and ER), the model’s predictive power increased to 60.0% (p < 0.001). Nonetheless, DLD diagnosis maintained much of its predictive power (β = 1.18, p < 0.001). This final model, depicted in Fig. 3, demonstrates the significant mediating effect of ER in explaining some of the relationship between DLD diagnosis and social frustration (z = 3.38, p < 0.001). Although anxiety was significantly predicted by DLD diagnosis (β = 12.05, p < 0.001), it was not identified as a mediator due to its lack of significance in predicting social frustration (β = 0.02, p = 0.09).
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Qualitative insights
For Josephine and Helen, they understood the link between DLD, ER and social frustration to be cyclical. Josephine described it as being driven by Femi’s frustration “that he can’t explain how he’s feeling”. She described watching him in groups, where he gets embarrassed that his peers can’t understand him and loses control of his emotions, which impacts the interaction:
He finds it difficult to articulate his emotions, and within that his emotions can drastically change, so if I’m not understanding something, I’ll ask him to repeat it, and [he shouts angrily] “but I just said it! How dare you not understand me! Why don’t you understand me!” […] it makes sense that the social frustration would come from the emotion regulation, as opposed to anxiety. Especially as he has no anxiety within social situations.
Helen saw how social frustration could perhaps lead to anxiety, rather than the other way around: “It becomes very anxiety inducing being in a social situation when you don’t know how to behave”.
For Iris, she understood Dimo’s social anxiety to be totally hypothetical, rather than connected to actually experiencing social frustration. Although Dimo worries about other children bullying him (“what if they pick up on my struggles, they might make fun of me”), these worries haven’t materialised at all, and Dimo has a good group of friends. The only time she says she’s witnessed him socially withdraw she understood to be due to his language difficulties: “for him it is really that simple”.