Practical advices
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Person
(n = 29)
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18% of the second;
19% of the sixth
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How to move to the rehabilitation ward
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Advices about how to get requests to professional (nurse, case manager or physician) as quickly as possible, especially during the emergencies.
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<< Now I must build the practical situation with my mother, so I need practical advices>>
(I.D.1, Caregiver)
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Patient care management at home
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Caregivers were concerned about patient care management at home: difficulties with feeding and use of NIV. They frequently discussed about the possible solutions to find out support of home assistants and associations.
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Interpersonal relationship
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Problems in interpersonal relationships concerned how to behave with home assistants, with who it was important to balance between an exclusively work relationship and a family or friendship relationship.
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Explanation of pathology
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Patient
(n = 49)
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35% of the fourth;
27% of the second one
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Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis
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Even if the diagnostic label ALS is the same for all patients, symptoms and progression pathways showed are very different between subjects. Participants reported their diagnostic experiences, and their problems with diagnostic communications.
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<< Maybe is better if you first explain it to us first and then we ask you questions>>
(I.D. 7, Patient)
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Taking care of the patient
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Each of the professionals who took part to group meetings explained which his role within the multidisciplinary team was. Participants appreciated the issues about humanization of care, feeling considered as people and respected in their dignity.
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Equipment and economics help
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Economic measures and the helps made available from the Italian State or Regions to help patients with ALS and their caregivers.
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Emotions linked to ALS
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Education about the emotional components linked to ALS: participants have been invited to make a distinction between emotions and thoughts.
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Recognition of emotions
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Fear
(n = 9)
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6% of the third;
7% of the seventh
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Most frequent emotions
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Fear was referred by patients who often linked it to the inability to control the disease progression, and caregivers’ burden (they were scared about the idea that they could compromise caregivers’ physical or psychological health). Anger was often linked to the ALS and his progression by both patients and caregivers. Some caregivers (n = 3) referred that they were often angry with the patient they care for; other caregivers (n = 4) referred that they are not. In the first case, caregivers often linked angry to guilt because they recognized that patients have no blame in their own condition. Sadness was very common for patients who saw their body deteriorating. Caregivers felt patients’ sadness and they often tried to console him, even if this was very difficult. Shame was often linked to the worsening of patient’s health condition.
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<<Emotionally it is exhausting>>
(I.D. 3, Caregiver)
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Legitimize emotions
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A difficulty to accept emotions was common between participants. This made it easier to legitimize this difficulty and negative emotions as normal issues.
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Adaptation
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Disease (n = 35)
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9,5% of the fifth;
9% of the first
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Acceptance of the pathology
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Participants often referred that was not easy to accept this illness. Psychologists often invited patients and caregivers to focus on the difference between acceptance and adaptation. It is impossible to accept ALS, the only thing you can do is to adapt to.
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<< I don’t accept my illness.>>
(I.D. 2, Patient)
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Elaboration of a loss
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Participants often expressed a difficulty in accepting the loss of their daily routine, as it was before the onset of ALS. It was very difficult to accept that it is no longer possible to walk on your own legs or eat everything you want to. Caregivers instead referred that it was a problem to empathize with patient’s feeling about loss of functionality. Caregiver often used negation as defence mechanism.
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How to fight ALS
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Everyone finds his own strategies: some cited living day by day as a good strategy; it consists on content of what it is still possible, of the activity patients can still perform without worries about patient’s worsening; other used isolation as a strategy to face the challenges posed by ALS.
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Family and relationships
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Brother (n = 28)
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13,5% of third;
12,5% of the seventh
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Family
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In some families (n = 3), the duty of care was equally divided between caregivers; in these families, relationships were better, and no family member felt alone in the fight against ALS. In other cases (n = 2), this division of tasks was not possible, and it created pain and suffer among family members. It seems that care of the seek family member has awaked an old pain an old rancour in these families.
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<< Thanks to the disease I have seen who a friend is and who is not. Many got away, both relatives and friends.>>
(I.D. 2, Patient)
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Friendship
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After the onset of ALS also friendly relationships changed. Some (n = 3) reported that they have friends who take care of the patient, trying to encourage him. Others (n = 4) referred a loss of friends after the onset of ALS; this was often reported sadly by participants and linked to the friends’ difficulty in accepting patients’ illness and patients’ loss of functionality.
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Loneliness and choice of isolation
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For some (n = 4) loneliness was an uncomfortable condition; experienced as something negative and it seemed that there was no one to count on. Others (n = 4) told about loneliness as something chose to protect themselves from the reactions that other people might show; isolation seems to be functional to protect against the feeling of shame.
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Exit from home
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Caregivers often complained about patients who do not want to leave their houses. The group was useful to show how similar this difficulty was present in many patients and to normalize the situation.
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Being caregiver of oneself
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Must
(n = 10)
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4% of the first;
4% of the third
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Need to protect oneself and to find time for oneself
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Caregivers often showed the need to protect their psychological world from a situation perceived as damaging for their own physical and psychological health. They reported a severe difficulty in taking time for themselves, as if they were stealing this time from patient care.
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<< It is important to protect yourself. It is important to have the opportunity to take care of yourself. You cannot delate yourself. >>
(I.D. 20, Psychologist)
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Duty of care
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Caregivers often felt obliged to spend time, which could be spent on self-care, with the patient. Then, when they finally succeeded in having time for themselves, guilt took over.
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Sharing
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Group (n = 33)
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14% of the third;
10% the sixth one
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Sharing patient care
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Since it was impossible to survive with the burden of patient care, many (n = 5) caregivers reported a need of sharing care with others. Group has been recognized as a safe place where it was possible to ask for helps and to receive it, feeling less isolated in the caring process.
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<< If I hadn’t had the opportunity to confront with people who live my same situation and to share with them, maybe I would have gone out of my mind!>>
(I.D. 1, Caregiver)
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Sharing life experiences and difficulties
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Participants often described life experiences, reporting experiences about the diagnostic process and the difficulties with diagnostic communication, with the adaptation to the disease and with the use of some tools as NIV.
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Sharing as an opportunity
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Participants understood that they were not alone in this situation. In this process, a kay point was the help of professionals who gave information and advices to better cope with the ALS. They made participants feel less alone and more supported.
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