We developed six main themes, shown alongside their respective subthemes and connections in Fig. 1. Here we explore these themes, drawing upon illustrative quotes accompanied by pseudonyms to evidence and contextualise, and attending to agreement, nuances, and divergences in viewpoints.
Theme 1: Rising rates of low mood and anxiety are unsurprising
We began discussions by introducing evidence of heightened rates of low mood and anxiety among girls relative to boys, including of apparent recent increases. There was consensus that this evidence was unsurprising: “it’s not really a shock, it’s just something we all know” (Sophie). Participants said that evidence echoed what they felt to be true, referencing their own experience, their peers’ experiences, and wider messaging: “it doesn’t shock me because there’s a lot of [my friends] that experience it” (Phoebe); “I heard that mental health problems have been increasing” (Katrina). Some expressed that to experience difficulties like low mood and anxiety is normal among adolescents now: “I’ve definitely seen an increase. It's more of a normal thing for people to go through” (Alex); “I think it is just normal for teenage girls to have low mood” (Isa). Participants pointed to the COVID-19 pandemic as exacerbating issues: “when I think of increasing mental health issues like among teenagers I think of COVID and lockdown and stuff” (Louise).
Participants also described a normalisation of mental health among adolescents, who they saw as increasingly comfortable talking about difficult feelings and mental health challenges: “people are more open about things, so they talk about it” (Amina). However, a few participants suggested that poor mental health is idealised: “in a lot of mental health education mental health is romanticized almost. I feel like some people want to have mental health issues” (Beth), and that normalisation only extends so far: “it’s OK not to be OK, until it gets messy” (Alex).
Theme 2: Strict and narrow expectations of how girls and women should look and behave
Participants described sexist stereotypes and expectations as being placed on and internalised by adolescent girls, embedded in a longstanding conceptualisation of women as restricted to particular patterns of behaviour and expression: “men are always seen as the more favoured and they’re more able, they’re more capable. I still think people look at women and think, ‘Oh, you shouldn’t do this, you shouldn’t do that’” (Maya). These included overarching perspectives of what girls and women “should” be as well as specific aspects of behaviour and appearance; i.e., that girls should be quiet and polite, and should aim to be beautiful within narrow, homogeneous standards:
Stuff like makeup and shaving has become so normalized it's no longer a choice that you make, it's kind of… expected. So, you don’t really get to decide what is beautiful to you, but, you're just kind of forced to play into it (Emmy)
Participants explored how such expectations are communicated and reinforced from an early age, such as in childhood toys and media: “if you think like the toys boys and girls are given, a girl would get given a kitchen set, being in a kitchen’s quite quiet, but a boy’ll get given a nerf gun, that's loud” (Ayesha). They highlighted that the media generally portray women in narrow and gendered ways, often with implicit or explicit judgement: “one of the main reasons [for low mood and anxiety] might be the media, because there's quite a large very focus on women's appearance and also personality, especially compared to the men” (Katrina).
Participants reflected on how these expectations are reiterated to adolescent girls by peers and adults, with gendered comments and judgement of them when one is not as not conforming somehow: “you're sort of performing… you have to look a certain way, and smile, or if you don't smile, you get told to smile” (Ayesha). Some reflected feeling that all ways of being are judged for girls, meaning they exist in an impossible space of being:
Abigail: In primary I was the only girl that would play football and I was called a tomboy, the whole of primary literally from year three onwards, and then…
Sunita: Did you ever get told that it was cause you had a crush on the boys?
Abigail: Yeah.
Sunita: Cause-, [splutters] I hate that so much.
Abigail: Yeah, like, either you’re a tomboy of it’s like ‘oh she just wants to be friends with the boys.’ […]
Kira: And leading on from Sunita’s point where girls are made fun of for whatever they like. Like if you're girly then you're made fun for being too girly. But if you're kind of like a tomboy, you’re made fun of that as well, like you're a pick me girl or whatever. So, no matter what you're always going to be judged in some way.
These narratives were explored as permeating and limiting other aspects of day-to-day life for adolescent girls. For example, participants talked about how this permits a normalisation of sexual harassment in adolescent spaces (particularly schools), how options available to them such as sports and STEM subjects (science, technology, engineering, and mathematics) are narrowed, and how girls see coverage of societal issues affecting women being minimised2: “when a boy is like pinching a girl or something like that, and like physically doing things they'll just say it's flirting, and blame the girl” (Sunita).
This pervasive messaging, and the ways that narratives around gender and women permeate day-to-day life, was framed as having a profound impact for adolescent girls, wherein expectations become normalised and unconsciously internalised, leading to feelings of insecurity and becoming deeply bound up with one’s identity, self-concept, and self-worth:
When people think that insecure girls is [sic] just someone who thinks, ‘oh, my hair isn’t good enough’, but it's so much deeper than that and I think a lot of the insecurities within girls that they just don't feel like… a person because of how they've been treated (Sunita)
[Society’s conceptualisation of women as inferior] just makes [girls and women] feel like they're like worthless (Sara).
Theme 3: Educational pressures feel intense and gendered
Participants described educational experiences as restrictive and pressuring, and not always considerate of developmental, wellbeing, and individual needs. They discussed pressure and demand – from teachers, from parents/carers, and implied within systems – around attainment and behaviour, with no room for mistakes, that become especially intense across secondary school and further education (e.g., sixth form, college) around exams and grades,3 making major life decisions, and not only keeping up but being “the best”. They reflected that these can lead to persistent feelings of sadness and worry: “in year 9 I was perfectly fine and then in year 10 I was really sad and really depressed and I had so much anxiety because I really wanted to do well in my GCSEs” (Hanna).
Participants explored how such pressures may be communicated to and experienced by girls in acute, complex ways. Some felt that this pressure is greater for girls, because high achievement is expected, heightening the emotional impact: “if a boy fails, then, you know, it's not that bad, but I feel like if a girl does, it means a lot more” (Ayesha). As in the previous theme, participants reflected on gendered expectations of classroom behaviour and in how their classroom contributions are valued, which could feel upsetting and diminish their sense of self. A particular issue explored here was ‘male-dominated’ STEM subjects, which were seen to be gendered spaces with low expectations, creating additional pressure and worry around achievement: “if you're in like a male-dominated classroom and you're getting the worst results, it kind of… you just feel like you take all of that on yourself and you just feel like you're letting down other women” (Emmy).
Theme 4: Challenges in peer relationships can add pressure
Challenging aspects of peer relationships were frequently explored as linked to low mood and anxiety. Participants spoke of a culture of comparison among adolescent girls, where it is normalised to compare oneself to others and to judge and feel judged by others, spanning domains including ways of thinking, grades, future life plans, and, most prominently, appearance and self-expression:
It became a competition to see if you could eat the least at lunch basically. So it was a whole table of girls all with tiny little plate of salad on their plate and then if you didn't join in with that you felt like you were being judged, because you were sat there eating pasta or something, and someone was like 'oh my gosh that's so much carbs, you're going to get fat' (Beth).
Participants explored such dynamics as partially rooted in gendered societal narratives and insecurity, and that this comparison and competition can be stressful, encouraging of rumination, and problematic for self-esteem and sense of self: “most people are quite insecure and then they feel the need for competition to validate how they feel” (Liah).
Participants also pointed to conflict with peers, including arguments and fallouts between friends and peers, challenges experienced in romantic relationships and breakups, issues of bullying in a peer context, and feeling isolated, all of which seeps into online and offline worlds and can prompt considerable distress: “the fallout of breakups and arguments can be quite upsetting. I know when I was in secondary school that was the main reason why I was quite upset because I'd have arguments with friends” (Kate); “when girls are mean it's less direct […] so you feel a bit crazy” (Katrina).
Some wondered whether low mood and anxiety among girls could become self-perpetuating through friendships, exploring the possibility of emotional contagion among girls, and how challenging it can be to support a friend experiencing such feelings: “if the numbers of young teenage girls who are having bad mental health or just low mood or anxiety then, if they're going up […] it's just going to kind of like bounce off each other (Liah). However, participants also described friendships as valuable mental health support sources, with the challenges captured in this theme comprising only part of these connections: “the one thing that will always help me is my best friend” (Sunita).
Theme 5: Social media can be a space of comparison and insecurity
This theme is interconnected with several wider themes, as we found that the ways that participants discussed social media framed it as a platform in which the other issues they described (e.g., gendered expectations, challenges with peers) play out or are magnified. Participants framed comparison and insecurity as normalised in social media spaces, and emphasised that platforms with more visual content (e.g., Instagram, TikTok) reiterate expectations for how girls should present themselves. Participants explored how this leads to comparison to peers and to influencers, and normalises a sense of insecurity and conforming to these expectations, as in the earlier quote from Emmy, or from Hanna: “they’re seeing an image over and over again whether it's videos on TikTok or Instagram etcetera, so they feel like that's what they have to look like or else they’re ugly”.
Participants noted how the standards established on social media around one’s appearance and day-to-day life are generally unrealistic: “you see these people with perfect lives and the perfect house and a perfect face” (Kira). They highlighted that it can be difficult to tell what is “real” (particularly for younger adolescents), meaning that adolescent girls are often engaging in unreasonable comparisons: “you only see the best bits of people's lives and sometimes that is really hard to separate out” (Alex). They noted particular ways that platforms function as problematic here, such as normalisation of filters and photoshop, and algorithms that narrow content engagement: “there’s filters that are really realistic, so you wouldn't know” (Abigail); “if you watch dancing videos or makeup and stuff revolving around ‘body’, then you’ll see more of that […] and then you think ‘maybe that’s how my body should look’” (Isa).
Participants therefore raised concerns about adolescent girls being so engaged with these platforms, including during childhood, and linked this normalisation and comparison to low mood and anxiety among adolescent girls: “in your mind you're comparing yourself without even thinking about it and that affects your mood” (Kira); “I think [the increase of low mood and anxiety among girls] is because of different social media apps on different social platforms” (Amina).
Yet, participants reflected that it is easy to overly blame rates of mental health difficulties on social media, and advised caution in treating this association as one-dimensional. They explored perceived positives of social media as a platform for body positivity, mental health conversations, queer communities, and connection and community, and suggested that positive and negative aspects are intertwined: “the increasing connectedness that we have with people all over the world is great, but it's also really bad because you can compare yourself to everyone else, and I think that's really damaging” (Sophie).
Theme 6: There is no easy answer to explain or resolve issues
Throughout discussions there was an underlying narrative of the complexity of the issues explored. Some participants explored the idea that there is not any single factor driving rates of low mood and anxiety among adolescent girls, including recent increases, echoing Nazrin’s earlier comment about social media: “I think there’s a whole lot of different things causing this trend” (Sophie). Participants unpicked the extent to which one can draw overarching conclusions about what affects adolescent girls and their mental health. They explored how many of the issues being discussed did not only affect adolescent girls, also affecting boys and people at other life stages: “yes, girls have body image issues sometimes because of social media, but sometimes young boys have this image of how a man should look like…. that can really degrade their mental health” (Isa). Some emphasised individual differences in experiences, in how people respond to similar factors and experiences, and in support needs, including in relation to intersecting experiences among groups such as those from UK ethnic minority and LGBTQIA + communities: “when it comes to sexuality other people definitely are like the reason for like low mood and bad mental health [because of how they respond]” (Ruby).
Participants reflected on how the issues they discussed were complex and systematic (e.g., misogyny, social media norms), rendering change challenging, and requiring those in positions of power to listen and embrace change: “how can you convince millions of people to develop a different mindset [to] change our thinking?” (Rana); “if politicians actually talk to people who've gone through all of this is still going through it, like we are now” (Alex). Yet, participants emphasised that this change is important, even if it is hard and requires incremental progress: “even if one little certain bit can be tackled then it’s one certain bit that helps like a person” (Chloe).
[2] It is perhaps worth noting here that focus groups took place in the midst of Wade vs. Roe, a landmark piece of legislation affirming a constitutional right to abortion in the United States, being overturned, which received considerable news attention in England and on social media platforms.
[3] It is reasonable to consider that the timing of data generation and age of participants may have affected some of these discussions in terms of exams, whereby 16- to 18-year-olds were exploring these issues shortly after many of them had just experienced a busy period of high stakes exams. It is quite possible that at a different time in the year, the extent of pressure described might have been lesser.