Childhood bereavement is prevalent and can be associated with elevated symptoms of grief with distress and impairment. Approximately 3.5% of children, or one child per school classroom, is coping with grief following the death of an immediate family member (parent or sibling) (1). Despite being a universal experience, bereavement can negatively affect both short- and long-term psychosomatic and socioeconomic outcomes on an individual level (2). Most commonly encountered long-term manifestations and challenges are the following: difficulties falling asleep (4), anxiety and depression (3–5), internalizing and externalizing behavior disorders (6), low self-esteem (4), social withdrawal (6), increased absence from school (7), illicit substance use (3) and attempted suicide (3). Furthermore, unsatisfactory social support, namely a lack of communication with family and peers regarding the death, can be a leading risk factor for increased anxiety and prolonged grief (5, 8–10). On the other hand, some grief counselors argue that positive outcomes can emerge from bereavement such as posttraumatic growth, increased resilience, pro-social behavior and altruism (11).
An accurate conception of death is generally acquired between ages 9 and 11 (6, 12). During their cognitive development, children progressively ascertain five concepts to comprehend death: irreversibility (death is permanent), personal mortality (death applies to oneself), universality (death is inevitable), non-functionality (with death all life functions cease), and causality (realistically understanding death’s causes) (6, 12). At each milestone, grief is revisited and redefined and a part of the grieving process will inevitably be resolved later in life (2, 13), although a child’s coping mechanisms gradually become more operational and effective (6, 12). However, complicated grief is evoked when there is persistent intense symptoms of acute grief and/or thoughts, feelings or behaviors reflecting excessive or distracting concerns about the circumstances or consequences of the death (14). Being particularly attentive to risk factors for complicated grief preceding the death (close relation to the deceased, history of difficult family relationships, prior personal mental health history), circumstances surrounding (violent and/or unexpected circumstances, absent or forced participation in funeral rites) and/or following the death itself (changes in daily life patterns, adverse reactions of family and peers) is important for correct onward referral to professional care where needed (15).
Developmentally appropriate bereavement care for children, including external professional help, is often necessary for a grieving family (16). Bereavement interventions can take on various forms, such as group sessions, weekend camps, family therapy and individual therapy (17). Preliminary qualitative and quantitative results of group intervention evaluations (multiple sessions or bereavement camp) show a positive effect for families. Primary benefits include creating a sense of community among grieving families, and facilitating dialogue and mutual encouragement (17). A recent review of the literature of bereavement care interventions for siblings under the age of 18 showed that the group intervention “Histoire d’en Parler” (“Let’s talk about it”) is the only French intervention described in scientific literature.(17) The conception of the workshops stemmed from a growing concern of lack of local support for bereaved siblings. Although children might not present with complicated grief nor need professional help, no other form of support was available other than individual psychological or psychiatric care. Furthermore, local non-profit organisations providing support for bereaved adults felt unable to extend their care to children and adolescents. The paediatric palliative care team and the child psychiatry team collaborated with an expert psycho-sociologist in grief care to create the bereavement workshop. Initially the workshops were open only to children bereaved of a sibling. However, as the demand increased additional groups for children bereaved of a parent were opened. Children bereaved by parental suicide were also gradually included in the workshops. The workshop comprises four group sessions over four months and provides bereaved children the opportunity to share their experiences through art-based activities and mediated discussions (18).The objective of our study was to evaluate overall feasibility and acceptability of the workshop.
Description of the workshop
The family and child first undergo a pre-intervention screening process by consultation with a pediatrician. The purpose of this intake assessment is to take medical history, to understand the circumstances of the death and the child’s understanding of grief, and to explain the intervention layout to prospective participants. If the child does not seem apt to share their grief in a group setting, they are referred onward for more appropriate care.
The workshop involves four evening sessions over a period of four months. Each session lasts approximately 90 minutes. The workshop is a closed group of six to eight participants divided into age groups (6–12 years and 13–18 years). They are co-facilitated by two trained staff members (child psychologists or child psychiatrists). The overall outline of each session is similar and is reproducible from one workshop to another. The sessions begin with a time for individual creativity, followed by a mediated grief-centered group discussion, and concluding with a collective painting project. The arts and crafts activity goals are as follows: drawing a picture of their deceased loved one, coloring mandalas where the colors represent different emotions, cut-and-paste collage of their family and their future, and making clay figures of their loved ones or of memorable objects. The creative activities take place in an arts and crafts room, whereas the discussions take place in a more intimate and cozy environment.
At the end of the four sessions, the family is invited to meet again with the pediatrician who completed their intake assessment. The therapist provides a behavioral summary report for each child, identifying concerns and progress during the workshops. If needed, the child will be referred onward for one-on-one professional psychological care.
During the workshops, an optional discussion group is offered to parents. This parallel group is led by volunteers from a bereavement support organization and takes place in a nearby separate location from the children’s workshops.
The goal of the workshop format is to help children identify and develop coping mechanisms that facilitate adjustment to a significant person’s death. This focus includes primarily social support and normalization, memory activities, and fostering resilience. Firstly, creating community among grieving children helps to destigmatize bereavement and reduce the feeling of isolation. Secondly, grief-centered commemorative activities help to create continuing bonds with the deceased. Studies indicate that talking openly, cherishing mementos and forming continuing bonds with the deceased can be associated with better adjustment to significant loss (19). The artistic activities aim to help the child develop a coherent narrative of their loss and thus minimize maladaptive feelings and behaviors surrounding the death. Lastly, the group discussions and activities were designed to encourage children to share their grief experience, normalize their feelings and develop resilience and coping skills.