During the intense period of childhood illness, some of the serious issues that arise are those of the expression of emotions, the parent's need to communicate, as well as the management of his new reality. The parent's attempt to make a relative or friend, many times even his or her own spouse, a sharer of his or her personal difficulty is often fruitless. In previous related publications, we talked about the needs faced by parents of children with cancer in Greece, presenting a multitude of different issues, physical, psychological and also spiritual, which each parent is called upon to resolve and also communicate about them by asking for help (13, 14).
The related literature presents high percentages of difficulties in communicating with the family circle, the social environment, medical and nursing staff, as well as a thorny continuity of daily previous activities (15, 16, 17, 18, 19), while others do not (20). The results in the present research do not show high numbers. In particular, the participants do not have any particular difficulty in expressing their feelings towards their partner, family and social environment during their child's illness. On the contrary, we observe that they comfortably ask for help when they feel they need it, mainly from family and partner (Table 1). It is particularly worth pointing out that compared to a related study, which shows a percentage of 35% regarding receiving help from the family (17), in our research the corresponding percentage is cumulatively for the three highest answers on the 7-point Likert scale, 76, 7%. (Table 2).
It is also worth mentioning that in addition to the family and partner that were previously analyzed, comfort of communication and high support and help based on the results are also received by the participants from other social groups. Specifically, cumulatively for the three highest responses on the 7-point Likert scale, friends gather 69.9%, medical/nursing staff 67.6%, and parents of other sick children 59.3% (Table 3 & Table 4).
The literature argues for significant and beneficial outcomes that suggest the feasibility of encouraging functional coping strategies and social support in families of children with disabilities and chronic diseases. Cancer, congenital heart disease, diabetes and autism, are some indicative examples of diseases that related studies note the contribution of communication and social support of parents for a successful management of the disease within the family (21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26).
It is crucial to recognize and address the unique needs of parents during this tumultuous period and to help them navigate the complexities of the situation and communicate their problems effectively. The initial shock of the diagnosis is frequently followed by an overwhelming fear for their child’s life and future, compounded by the grief of disrupted dreams and expectations. This emotional upheaval can lead to significant stress and anxiety, potentially affecting their mental health and well-being. Τhe anxiety created by the uncertain state of the child's illness, produced the need for communication and sharing of the difficulty (27). High levels of depression and hopelessness state and trait anxiety scores for both mothers and fathers, results that confirm the urgent need of psychological and social support to help parents cope with these problems (28).
Support for parents must encompass psychological counseling and emotional support. Access to professional counselors, support groups, and peer networks can provide a safe space for parents to express their fears and anxieties. Counseling can also equip parents with coping strategies to manage their emotions and maintain mental resilience. Support groups, where parents can connect with others facing similar challenges, offer a sense of community and shared understanding, reducing feelings of isolation and helplessness (29). As we have seen in our study, in Greece there are special emotional bonds between family and friends. We attribute the fact of the high positive responses according communication with all these support groups (Table 1–4) to these strong emotional family and friendly ties that prevail in our country, with a strong willingness to share in the pain of each person.
Open and honest communication with healthcare providers and other support groups ensures that parents are fully informed about their child’s condition and treatment, fostering a collaborative approach to care. Clear communication within the family helps in maintaining emotional coherence and mutual support, crucial for the overall well-being of the child and family unit. In this point we have to mention that the need for communication and support does not end with the conclusion of active treatment. The long-term effects of a chronic disability and especially childhood cancer, including the risk of recurrence and the emotional scars left by the experience, necessitate ongoing support for both the child and the parents (30, 31). Survivorship programs and long-term counseling can provide continuous emotional and psychological support, helping families rebuild their lives and address any lingering fears or issues.
The above results testify that the immediate physical and functional problems of the child, with the repeated medical visits, the complex examinations and the frequent hospitalizations, as well as the uncertainty about the future with the complex secondary psychological and social problems, cause stress to the child and his family, with the responsibility of treating the disease being shared between doctor, child and family. The secondary effects of childhood illness, especially if it is a serious one such as neoplasms, constitute a threatening factor for a multitude of negative changes in the daily life of the parents that they have to communicate and share all this difficulty with someone who trust and can rely on.