All 10 participants were females between the ages of 13-19 years. See Table 1 for detailed demographic characteristics of the participants
Table 1: Demographic characteristics of participants
Demographic characteristics
|
No. of participants
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Age
13-15
16-18
>19
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1
8
1
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Marital status
Single
Married
Co-habiting
|
2
2
6
|
Education
No education
Primary
Secondary
|
2
3
5
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THEME 1: PHYSICAL HEALTH
A significant number of participants reported experiencing severe nausea and vomiting, commonly referred to as morning sickness. Participants also described a pervasive sense of exhaustion that was exacerbated by sleep disturbances. Many participants also experienced musculoskeletal pain, particularly in the lower back, hips, and pelvis. Participants recounted,
"The pain in my lower back was constant, especially when I was on my feet for too long. It made simple tasks like walking or standing very difficult. My feet were also so swollen that I couldn't wear my shoes. It was painful and alarming."
"I felt like I couldn't catch my breath, especially when I was trying to sleep. It was really frightening."
“I had candidiasis, lower abdominal pain, loss of appetite and body weakness when i went for antenatal care the following month and complained I was referred to the Teaching hospital to receive treatment for the candidiasis. They gave me some drugs and I took.”
“I sometimes experienced pain around my navel anytime my baby kicked, I also experienced vomiting, and sometimes difficulty in sleeping.”
“I was unable to walk properly and when I walked short distances, I got so tired. It was as though my stomach was too big for me to carry”
“I was always told my blood was not enough and they asked me to eat a lot of the green leafy vegetables. Honestly speaking I used to take the drugs they prescribed for me but still and I was eating well to so I don’t know why I was always facing this problem”
“The nurses said my baby was too small when I gave birth. I don’t know if its because of the local medicine I took to help me deliver vaginally that reduced my baby’s size because I was eating well”
Others also said:
“As for me, they had to perform surgery on me. My time for delivery had not reached but they asked me to come and they will remove my baby. When they removed him, he was so small that they had to admit us into the NICU for almost two weeks. They should have just allowed me to keep the pregnancy till term because NICU was very discomforting”.
“I was always sick and admitted to the hospital. I couldn’t eat anything and sometimes the little I ate I would vomit. They always gave me infusions because I was weak. I didn’t think I was going to survive but thanks be to God I did”
THEME 2: MENTAL HEALTH
The participants in this study described a range of mental health challenges encountered during their pregnancies. Many reported experiencing intense emotional fluctuations, with common emotions such as sadness, irritability, and overwhelming stress.
“I used to get angry too quickly and I could easily cry. I felt like nobody understood what I was going through, not even my partner at times. It was incredibly lonely."
Another participant discussed feelings of self-consciousness and anger:
“There were also times I felt when I was walking people were staring at me. It got me very angry. I didn’t know whether they were saying good or bad things but I knew they were bad things (laughs)”
The stress of unmet expectations and family pressure was a recurring theme:
“I had to stop school because of the pregnancy. Sometimes some of my friends came to the house to visit me. When they left my mother would start insulting me which made me angry. I know she is right to be angry because I am supposed to finish school and marry before I get pregnant but I am not God. God said it should happen and it did”
In some cases, participants had to make significant life adjustments to cope with societal and family pressures:
“I had to let the man come and pay my dowry immediately so I could move to his family house. I knew if I didn’t I was not going to find it easy at home”
Some participants also expressed their anxiety about the future:
"I was constantly worried about how I would manage everything after the baby arrived. The future seemed so uncertain and overwhelming which made me unable to eat sometimes"
Financial concerns also added to the stress of some participants:
“I was already married so I wasn’t worried about the pregnancy, my only worry was what the nurses advised me to eat my husband could not provide so it was worrying me a lot”
Some also discussed how societal judgment and family disputes exacerbated their emotional distress:
“I heard one of my former teachers used me as an example in school and advised others not to follow my footsteps. I wanted to go and insult him because I was angry. It made me very sad.”
“The family of the man that impregnated me and my family quarreled because they said I was a bad girl and they were not sure it was for their son. I cried day and night because its only God who knew the truth. When I gave birth, the boy resembled him so they had to come and pay my bride price and send me to their house”
“Some of my friends did not want to associate with me any longer because they felt I was a bad girl. I was aware they also slept with men just that they were lucky not to have gotten pregnant. I even knew one of them who was been sleeping with several men but for me it was just once”
THEME 3: COPING STRATEGIES
Many participants highlighted the importance of discussing their issues with trusted persons. One stated:
“I used to discuss my problems with trusted family members and friends. Other times listening to music and watching movies helped me”
“My paternal grandmother was very helpful. She cautioned everyone not to insult or treat me badly. I could talk to her about everything and she used to tell me stories of her own pregnancy experiences. So anytime I had or felt anything I would go to her”
Some participants adopted avoidance strategies to protect themselves from potential stigma:
“I stopped attending occasions or programs. I avoided where people were grouped so they don’t point fingers or talk bad of me”
“Same with me even in the compound you won’t see me I was always in the room. The only time you see me is when I want to urinate or eat”
Participants noted that supportive nurses played a significant role in their emotional well-being
“Some of the nurses too were very helpful. They sometimes engaged me in conversations to know my problems and gave me possible solutions to them. They didn’t treat me bad at all. I was very happy talking to them”
“I was always given special attention when I went for ANC. It was as though I was a rich woman because we always think it’s the rich people who get special attention in health facilities. One nurse even came to my house to advise my caretakers on what I needed to eat. After her visit things changed for the better”
Adopting an indifferent attitude towards others’ opinions was another coping strategy.
“I didn’t care what anyone said about me at the time. I lived an i-don’t-care life and it helped”
Family support, particularly from family, partner, and partner’s family, was crucial for some participants.
“I asked my partner to enroll me into learning to weave and he did so when day breaks, I go to the shop and because there was plenty of work there was no time to be thinking about what other people thought of you”
“My parents were angry at first but I think in the fourth month they forgave me. I thanked God for touching their hearts. My parents did their best for me”
“My partner did not have a permanent job at the time, he was doing by-day. Despite this, my partner tried to meet my requests whenever possible. I was considerate and avoided being too demanding, understanding that my partner was doing their best with limited resources”