In our study, 30 mothers participated, and recruitment ceased upon reaching data saturation. Table 1 summarizes the key characteristics of the mothers and children included in the study. Among the 30 participants, 15 were working mothers from various professions, while the remaining 15 were nonworking mothers. Among these mothers, 19 aptly described their child's mental characteristics on the basis of the index score.
Table 1
Key characteristics of the participants
S No. | Mother’s Occupation Status | No. of Children | Gender of Child | Age of Child | Birth Order of Child |
1. | Working | 1 mmmmmmnnnnkjnjnczdjksdididjde | male mamale m | 2 years | 1st |
2. | Working | 3 | female | 6 years | 2nd |
3. | Working | 2 jjjjhygyugyugyygygu | male | 4 years | 1st |
4. | Working | 2 | male | 5 years | 2nd |
5. | Working | 3 | male | 6 years | 3rd |
6. | Working | 1 | male | 6 years | 1st |
7. | Working | 2 | female | 4 years | 1st |
8. | Working | 4 | female | 6 years | 3rd |
9. | Working | 1 | female | 3 years | 1st |
10. | Working | 1 | male | 2 years | 1st |
11. | Working | 3 | male | 6 years | 1st |
12. | Working | 2 | male | 5 years | 2nd |
13. | Working | 2 | female | 6 years | 1st |
14. | Working | 3 | female | 5 years | 2nd |
15. | Working | 3 | male | 3 years | 3rd |
16. | Nonworking | 2 | female | 3 years | 2nd |
17. | Nonworking | 4 | female | 4 years | 4th |
18. | Nonworking | 1 | female | 2 years | 1st |
19. | Nonworking | 2 | female | 5 years | 1st |
20. | Nonworking | 4 | male | 4 years | 4th |
21. | Nonworking | 2 | female | 2.5 years | 1st |
22. | Nonworking | 1 | female | 3 years | 1st |
23. | Nonworking | 2 | female | 3 years | 1st |
24. | Nonworking | 3 | male | 2 years | 2nd |
25. | Nonworking | 4 | male | 3 years | 4th |
26. | Nonworking | 1 | female | 2 years | 1st |
27. | Nonworking | 2 | male | 4 years | 1st |
28. | Nonworking | 2 | female | 2 years | 2nd |
29. | Nonworking | 2 | male | 5 years | 1st |
30. | Nonworking | 4 | male | 3 years | 2nd |
Table 2
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 465 90 67 16 292 0 | 0.19 0.14 0.03 0.62 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 3
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 201 59 21 13 108 0 | 0.29 0.10 0.06 0.53 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 4
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 532 87 73 24 314 34 | 0.16 0.13 0.04 0.59 0.06 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 5
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 358 216 33 8 101 0 | 0.60 0.09 0.02 0.28 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 6
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 280 39 67 8 166 0 | 0.13 0.23 0.02 0.59 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 7
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 297 89 21 4 166 17 | 0.29 0.07 0.01 0.55 0.05 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 8
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 486 232 51 12 174 9 | 0.47 0.10 0.02 0.35 0.01 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 9
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 215 26 54 0 135 0 | 0.12 0.25 0 0.62 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 10
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 141 57 36 9 39 0 | 0.40 0.25 0.06 0.27 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 11
Index Scores of Mother 10
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 200 107 14 4 21 0 | 0.53 0.07 0.02 0.10 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 12
Index Scores of Mother 11
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 420 160 100 5 155 0 | 0.38 0.23 0.01 0.36 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 13
Index Scores of Mother 12
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 358 138 99 5 116 0 | 0.38 0.27 0.01 0.32 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 14
Index Scores of Mother 13
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 482 213 58 6 205 0 | 0.44 0.12 0.01 0.42 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 15
Index Scores of Mother 14
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 473 161 16 13 190 0 | 0.34 0.03 0.02 0.40 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 16
Index Scores of Mother 15
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 523 214 97 26 155 31 | 0.40 0.18 0.04 0.29 0.05 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 17
Index Scores of Mother 16
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 82 40 0 16 26 0 | 0.48 0 0.01 0.31 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 18
Index Scores of Mothers 17
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 53 36 7 9 0 0 | 0.67 0.13 0.16 0 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 19
Index Scores of Mothers 18
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 170 80 50 7 33 0 | 0.47 0.29 0.04 0.19 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 20
Index Scores of Mother 19
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 601 302 105 70 118 6 | 0.50 0.17 0.11 0.19 0.00 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 21
Index Scores of Mother 20
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 486 187 123 20 148 8 | 0.38 0.25 0.04 0.30 0.01 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 22
Index Scores of Mother 21
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 508 258 123 118 9 0 | 0.50 0.24 0.23 0.01 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 23
Index Scores of Mother 22
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 468 201 142 49 53 23 | 0.42 0.30 0.10 0.11 0.04 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 24
Index Scores of Mother 23
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 384 170 45 27 135 7 | 0.44 0.11 0.07 0.35 0.07 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 25
Index Scores of Mother 24
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 350 83 57 29 157 24 | 0.23 0.16 0.08 0.44 0.06 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 26
Index Scores of Mother 25
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 563 201 44 30 234 54 | 0.35 0.07 0.05 0.41 0.09 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 27
Index Scores of Mothers 26
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 692 289 137 69 173 24 | 0.41 0.19 0.09 0.25 0.03 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 28
Index Scores of Mothers 27
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 564 121 201 31 206 5 | 0.21 0.35 0.05 0.36 0.00 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 29
Index Scores of Mother 28
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 215 26 54 0 135 0 | 0.12 0.25 0 0.62 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 30
Index Scores of Mothers 29
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 465 90 67 16 292 0 | 0.19 0.14 0.03 0.62 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Table 31
Index Scores of Mother 30
Attribute | Total Word Count (Verbosity) | Index Score |
Mental Behavioral Physical General SR | 215 26 54 0 135 0 | 0.12 0.25 0 0.62 0 |
SR = Self-referential |
Mental Attributes
By its very nature, mental attributes involve any comment that refers to the child’s mental life, including will, pretence, memory, interest, mind, imagination, or metacognition. Greater variation was observed in the nature of the mind-minded comments made by the mothers. The comments were mostly shallow and did not represent the deeper functioning of the child’s mental life. The closest mental descriptions that most mothers used were representative of intellectual abilities such as “she is intelligent”, “he picks up on things immediately”, and “he is curious, he questions everything”.
Data analysis revealed a consistent pattern of mental attributes used by mothers. The majority of them were related only to the intellect, curious nature, or smartness of the child. In descriptions of mothers of children between 2 and 4 years of age, the most common mental descriptions included how they observe and notice things around them and how they pick up tiny details and social cues. There was a lack of comments regarding the emotional regulation that involved mental abilities.
Working mothers mostly described their children’s ability to adjust to an environment without them being present around all the time. There was a lack of description regarding the child’s emotions, feelings, and way he perceives things or responds to situations on the basis of his mental ability. It was also observed that most mothers, especially working mothers, did not shed light on their child’s interests and likes, which involved any mental abilities. In contrast, nonworking mothers were found to comment about their child’s interest, e.g., one mother described “she loves to try new things”. Another nonworking mother commented, “She takes keen interest in creative things such as coloring and drawing”. She also described that ‘my child loves to play mind games like pretend”.
Mothers of children between 4 and 6 years of age described mental attributes in terms of how their child responds to situations, their school abilities and how they express themselves. However, most of these descriptions involve more behavioral manifestations than mental manifestations. Nonetheless, it might be safe to say that mothers of 4–6-year-old preschoolers were not more mind-minded if a comparison was drawn. However, 4– to 6-year-old children’s mothers were at least aware of the emotions of their children and described ways in which their child was “helpful”, “loving”, “responsible” or “sensitive”.
Furthermore, the data analysis revealed a pattern of comparison among siblings when they described mental attributes such as intelligence and intelligence. This pattern of comparison was frequently observed in mothers’ descriptions of their second- and third-born children. Comparisons were drawn for almost all the participant mothers in this category.
Another participant, the mother, drew comparisons:
She is my youngest child among three, and she is quite better at managing her emotions than her other siblings.
One of the mothers commented on the intellectual level of her youngest child by drawing comparisons with her other two children and said “he is intelligent than both of his siblings.” Therefore, it can be concluded that birth order can create a difference in the way mothers describe her child in reference to mental characteristics.
Behavioral Attributes
These attributes involve comments that are made in reference to the child’s behavior, including the activities or games in which the child is involved and how the child interacts with other people on a behavioral level. The nature of the child can also be coded as a behavioral attribute, especially if it involves a behavioral manifestation of a trait, e.g., aggression, being talkative, sharing, or compromising.
Most responses revealed a consistent pattern of behavioral descriptions that involved comments about the child’s activities, energy levels, how the child interacts with other people, and the behavioral nature of the child. In comparison with the mental comments made by mothers, there was a similar proportion of behavioral comments, and in some descriptions, it was even greater. Most mothers described the behavioral attributes in terms of the activities of the child and energy levels. For example:
He is very active.
He is fond of gaming.
He is very naughty.
She loves to get ready.
Most working mothers described their child with reference to behavioral attributes. Almost all the participant mothers described their child in the context of social interaction, how they interact with others and what their social nature is. The majority of attributes used by mothers were “social”, “friendly”, “sharing”, and “talkative”. Mothers of more than one child describe their child by drawing comparisons with other siblings in the behavioral context. Most of the descriptions revealed the interactive nature and behavior of the child compared with other siblings, for example:
He is naughtier than his siblings.
She is a little aggressive compared to others.
Her way of sharing love is cruel. She hits her young sister.
The findings also revealed that mothers of children aged 2–4 years used behavioral attributes such as “naughty”, “aggressive”, “active”, “talkative”, “obedient”, and “sensitive”, whereas mothers of children aged between 4–6 years used behavioral attributes such as “compromising”, “social”, “good-natured”, “friendly”, “expressive”, “respectful”, “patient”, “sharing”, and “compromising”.
From the qualitative analysis of descriptions, no major differences were found among the behavioral attributes described by working mothers and those described by nonworking mothers. Therefore, we can conclude that mothers are aware of their child’s behaviors at all preschool stages and tend to pay attention to them.
Physical Attributes
These include physical attributes of the child, such as physical appearance, birth order, age, height, etc. The analysis of the results revealed a small proportion of physical comments in all the descriptions made by the mothers. The nature of most physical comments was related to the age of the child, birth order and physical appearance. Some mothers also commented on the diet of the child, which can be coded as physical. Some physical descriptions include
She is youngest in the house
being a child she is very adorable, very cute
She is my youngest one.
She eats healthy.
We do not find much information about what the physical descriptions account for in the parent‒child interaction context of MM in the literature; therefore, nothing can be concluded on the basis of these attributes. In terms of proportion, the physical attributes did not account for more than 5% of the whole description, with most of them being 0–3%.
Self-referential
This category involves comments in which the primary focus is self rather than describing the child. A relatively small proportion of the comments made by a few mothers involved self-referential attributes. Some examples are as follows:
…he feels secure with me
I sometimes fear about her.
I sometimes get irritated from his questions.
Sometimes I feel I haven’t given him enough attention.
...However, when he is with me, I can control him; however, I like.