Sociodemographic characteristics
Fifty-eight participants (45 women employees, five managers, four cashiers, and four customers) have participated in the 6 FGDs, 10 IDIs, and 13 KIIs. The average length of record for each IDIs and FGDs was 80 minutes, and 40 minutes for KIIs. The women’s age ranged from 18 to 37 years. The key informants involved managers, cashiers, and customers who work as merchants, tour guides, and drivers (Table 1 and Table 2).
The identified themes and sub-themes
Four themes and fifteen sub-themes were covered in this article. The identified themes include (1) the perception of WSH, (2) the experience of WSH, (3) perceived risk factors for WSH victimization, and (4) consequences of WSH victimization.
Perception of sexual harassment
All the participants perceived that sexual harassment is a common issue in their workplaces. The subthemes under this theme were pressuring, threatening, touching, and abducting for sexual advances. Even though they did not classify into distinct categories, they perceive different sexual harassment incidents in the hospitality workplaces.
Pressuring for sexual advances
Most of the participants perceived that sexual harassment is being pressured to do unwanted sexual activities through tricks, including exaggerated tips and inappropriate promises of rewards in exchange for sexual favors:
“I think sexual harassment is a condition in which women working in hospitality workplaces are pressured to do sexual activities without their will. Mostly, they may be tricked through tips, another unnecessary gift, or inappropriate promise of rewards in exchange for sexual favors.” (25 years, IDI, four years experience in a cafeteria)
Other incidents that the participants perceived as sexual harassment were activities conducted by the supervisors or the owner. These activities include promoting and offering a new job and giving money in exchange for sexual favors:
“I think sexual harassment is the supervisors’ or owners’ action that can be explained by providing of money, and promising of rewards, and promoting for a better job position with better salary scale in exchange for advanced sexual favors.” (FGD, two years experience in a restaurant)
Threatening for a sexual advance
The participants’ also perceived that sexual harassments were activities of the sexual perpetrator that were expressed through threatening to hurt women’s relatives, firing from a job, complaining or falsely accusing about the provided service to the immediate supervisors in exchange for sexual favors:
“I think sexual harassment is the identification of the weak side of the women that makes it difficult to overcome the sexual requests. The soft parts could be her financial problem, her relative, or her beloved one. So, I think sexual harassment is expressed through threatening to hurt her relative or beloved one, complaining about her service provision performance to her immediate boss, threatening to fire from a job, and not to pay for the services unless we accept sex requests.” ( IDI, four years experience in a cafeteria)
Touching sensitive parts of the body
Furthermore, participants perceived that sexual harassments were acts that were expressed through touching sexually sensitive parts of women, random sexual jokes, verbal sexual requests, repeated requests to sexual mating, sexual solicitation, sexual intimidation, sexual prodding, and requesting telephone number:
“I think, sexual harassment are activities that can be reflected through hugging, touching breasts and touching hips while the women are at work” (IDI, two years experience in a restaurant)
Another participant added:
“I think, touching the breasts, hips, and genitalia, slapping the hips and the face, requesting sexual intercourse, commenting physical attributes, and inviting dining and requesting for sex are some of the things at which sexual harassment can be explained.” ( IDI, 1-year experience in a cafeteria)
Similarly, participants perceived that showing pornographic movies/pictures, writing sexual messages on the pay bill, unfair treatment of women, and undermining the women were the parts of sexual harassment:
“I believe sexual harassment is explained by […], winking, and undermining me considering my gender.” (FGD, two years experience in a restaurant)
Abducting for sexual intercourse
Lastly, participants perceived that sexual harassments were expressed through abducting, raping, slapping, kicking, pinching, and verbal insult of the women:
“Oh! I think sexual harassment is rape or abduction.” (FGD, four years experience in a cafeteria)
Another participant added:
“I think sexual harassment could be explained by spitting of drinks, slapping, pinching, caressing, talking unnecessary sexual talks, and talking and distributing false things about me to the manager.” (FGD, five years experience in a cafeteria)
Experiences of sexual harassment
Besides their perception, women recognized a variety of incidents in their workplaces. The subthemes under this theme include verbal, non-verbal, physical types of workplace sexual harassment and perpetrators. The participants noted that the perpetrators were agents, colleagues, customers, supervisors, and owners. Though they did not categorize the incidents, the research team classified their experiences as verbal, non-verbal, and physical types of sexual harassment.
Verbal experience of sexual harassment
The verbal forms of sexual harassment experiences include catcalling – whistling, yelling sexually suggestive comments, usually at a stranger; unwanted flirting; and jokes referring to sexual acts and sexual orientation. It also includes unwelcome graphic comments about a person’s body; unwelcome and inappropriate inquiries about a person’s sex life; sexual favors – asking for sexual favors from a co-worker or peer; and other sexual advancements. Participants in this study reported that women were harassed frequently in hotels, restaurants, cafeterias, and groceries and feel uncomfortable. They also reported that women workers experienced the threats of firing from a job, hating relatives/beloved, accuse her of improper service provision in exchange for sexual favors. Their female co-workers were reported to accept perpetrators sexual requests out of fear of retaliation if they turned away their unwanted sexual overtures:
“When we refuse to give our phone number to them, they will call the manager and falsely accuse us of not serving them properly. If we explain ourselves as we had a husband, children, and family, they will put the bill bag upside down.” (FGD, two years experience in a cafeteria)
Other participants added:
“When I was in a bar, unwanted sexual acts such as fondling, undermining, pushing us towards undesirable sexual acts using money and intimidating. The perpetrators did not realize that we are work for survival. […] As per their understanding, we all are doing transactional sex to get money from them.” (IDI, 1-year experience in a bar)
“I am working in hospitality workplaces for the last four years. I experienced lots of things regarding sexual harassment. Some customers spit on me, fondles me, kicked my hip, touched my breasts, and try to kiss me forcefully. Some also wait for me after I finished my job and threatened me to spend the night with them and perform sexual intercourse with them. Generally, it is the workplace where we join when we unable to get another option.” (IDI, four years experience in a restaurant)
Participants reported that they experienced inappropriate promises and too many tips to accept sexual requests. They also mentioned that they experienced comments about their physical attributes, request for dates, request for telephone number, request for sexual advances, and verbal insults while they are at their job:
“ha..ha…ha … (starts to laugh)… Then, he asked me to eat dinner with him, requested me to spend the night with him, and asked me to have sexual intercourse with him.” (IDI, three years of experience in a lodge cafe)
Other participants added:
“On one occasion, a famous and rich man approached me. He has been my customer, and mostly he gave an exaggerated tip for me. He has a marriage ring on his finger. Mostly he had been with his friends. Only later some time, he started to become lonely. I served him as usual. […] One day, he requested my telephone number, called for me, and requested me to accompany my dwelling house. I did not hesitate; I handed him my telephone number. He called me later at night. I talked to him in detail. He informed me that he is not happy with his spousal relationship. He told me that he could change my life. He also promised to open a business center and invited me to have sex with him. Merely, I turned down his request. Also, I told him to keep confidential what he requested.” (IDI, two years of service in a cafeteria)
“Surprisingly, most of the customers allocate a cost for each part of our body in terms of sexual intercourse.” (FGD, five years of experience in a cafeteria)
“Commenting about my physical attributes and requesting my telephone number are the most frequent incidents that I experienced.” (IDI, two years of service in bars)
Nonverbal experience of sexual harassment
The non-verbal forms of sexual harassment experiences were unwelcome gestures of a sexual nature – looking someone up and down in a way that makes that person feel uncomfortable, blocking someone’s path; Indecent exposure (e.g. “flashing”); and unwelcome display and sharing of sexually explicit pictures and objects. This form of sexual harassment was prominent in participants’ discussions. Accounts of nonverbal sexual harassment experiences were overt or covert sexual pressure, such as winking, showing pornographic movies, pictures, undermining the women, unfair treatment, gazing, and composing messages on the bill:
“[…] Leaving their phone number on the bill, winking, gazing, and so on.” (FGD, two years experience in a cafeteria)
Other participants added:
“Most of the things that I experienced in the hospitality workplaces are […], showing pornography movies, writing a message on the bill, winking, […], and other gestural signals.”(IDI, two years experience as a waitress in a hotel)
“Most of the incidents I experienced in the hospitality workplaces are […] showing pornography movies, writing a message on the bill, winking, […], and a request to have sexual intercourse.” (IDI, two years of service in bars)
Physical experiences of Sexual Harassment
The physical forms of sexual harassment experiences include unwanted touching or physical contact (e.g., an arm around the shoulder; a hand placed on a thigh or another part of the body; standing up against someone after being told to move away); and being subjected to a strip search in the presence of someone of the opposite sex. The types of sexual harassment experiences participants reported were abduction, fighting to kiss, fondling, forcing to do sex without willing, kicking, pinching, slapping, rape, and touching the sensitive areas.
“Most of the activities I experienced in the hospitality workplaces are, […], pinching, fondling, touching the buttocks and the breast. There are also winking, […], and other gestural signals of erotic request.” (IDI, two years of service in bars)
Another participant added:
“…. Some came to the organization for the first time, touched my breast, touched my hips, slapped my hips, fondle me, forced me to kiss, and touched my sensitive sexual parts, […].” (21 years, IDI, two years of experience in a cafeteria)
Who is responsible for the perpetration?
Participants sought categories for the responsibility of sexual harassment perpetration. These categories include customers, supervisors/managers/owners, male co-workers, agents (brokers), and transactional sex workers. Under the customers’ category, they mentioned different people with diverse professions. However, they emphasize that the incident was worse among wealthy elderly adult customers:
“The local old and wealthy guys are a more challenging group. […]. They tried to take us to very unusual places …, which is far from the populated area.” (FGD, three years experience in a cafeteria)
Other participants added:
“Mostly married and older adults are the perpetrators. These people mostly came to restaurants for the sake of recruiting girls for sexual harassment. They came to order something and did not use what they ordered. Instead, they harass us and request us for sexual intercourse. We know them, but they removed their marriage ring and coming to us, simulating that they did not marry.” (FGD, three years experience in a cafeteria)
“Old men like me just shaved their beard, have brokers whom they will bring girls from hospitality workplaces and universities. Brokers are doing stupid work. The low-income family sends their daughters to work and universities, but brokers bribing women and girls and sell them to elderly people whom they want to have sex with.” (customer, KII, Merchant)
The managers/supervisors/owner’s category was the second of the mentioned categories:
“When we apply for the job as waitresses, the first question which is going be asked by the manager or supervisor is not educational status, and it is not the work experience; it is a willingness to have sex with him.” (FGD, six years of experience in a restaurant)
Another participant added:
“The head waitresses also harass us, and receptions/cashiers are the sources of our address for the perpetrators. The receptions and cashiers are giving our address to get money and other incentives.” (FGD, three years experience in a bar)
Conversely, transactional sex workers’ presence and their way of attracting customers also lead to the perception that all employees are engaged in such activities. Besides as per their description, some women were working as an agent to create a relationship:
There are two types of waitresses. The first group is women who have family, marriage, and children. This group needs their job and help their family. The second group is young women who have no family. This group mostly does transactional sex to cover their expenses for home rent, food, cosmetics & cloth and sometimes creates a link between the perpetrators and the victims. By the way, this is because of the lower salary paid by the hospitality workplaces. Perpetrators considered all waitresses like the second group.” (IDI, two years of experience in a cafeteria)
Perceived risk factors of sexual harassment
Women, customers, cashiers, and managers noted various factors that place women working in the hospitality workplace at risk for SH, including factors related to customers, victims (women), organization, and others (Society, peer, and policy-related risk factors).
Customer-related Factors
Participants mentioned that the customers’ perceptions, such as considering women as a transactional sex worker, commercial sex worker, ordinary object, interested in related sexual matters, and an easy to get employees for sex:
“The customers perceive that all waitresses are transactional sex workers or commercial sex workers, and they request us to have sex with them using their money.” (IDI, two years experience in a restaurant)
Another person added:
“One of the driving factors is that most of the waitresses engaged in commercial sex work, and customers perceive that all are interested in this work.” (FGD, five years experience as a waitress)
It was mentioned that customers’ behaviors such as being alcoholic, being sex addicted, and failing to establish successful spousal relationships were also among the risk factors for sexual harassment:
“Sometimes, I think that they are addicted to having sex. Since they are married, they can get sex with their wives. However, they came to us to do the same thing with their money. Most of the married perpetrators try to convince me that cheating is healthy and has no problem.” (IDI, two years experience as a waitress)
Similarly, some respondents also mentioned that activities of the customers such as threatening to harm relatives/beloved, undermining the work or the workers, and provision of an exaggerated tip in exchange for sexual favors:
“Perpetrators approach the women and identify the women’s weak side to get an easy way for their request. The weak parts of most women are finance/money, relatives, or their darlings. As a result, the perpetrators threaten us to agree to their sexual requests, or they will harm our relatives/darlings and will not pay for the services that they used.” (FGD, three years experience in a cafeteria)
Other participants added:
“After all, in a big hotel or small catering, waitressing is considered less critical work by the customers. Some waitresses are also considered non-civilized. Rarely do some customers only understand the job and the workers. However, some classified us as commercial sex workers.” (FGD, three years experience in a bar)
“Customers showed us a tremendous amount of money. They also tried to give a very exaggerated tip. In this case, the intention is to attract women and request sexual advances.” (FGD, four years experience in a restaurant)
Victim-related factors
Participants reported that women deliberately pursue a relationship established upon the male providing financial assistance. Then some males expect sexual advances in return for financial assistance. This act implies that women reliant on income from customers, poverty, and financial problems were the risk factors for WSH:
“… Due to the lower salary, we sometimes engaged in sexual activity for the compensation of our economic problems through the perpetrator’s money.” (FGD, two years experience as a waitress)
Participants perceived that women who came from a rural area, young and inexperienced waitresses, and women with low awareness of the hospitality environment/sexual harassment are most vulnerable. It was reported that the pre-work awareness created in each organization were instructions about customer handling, wearing styles, work, salary, and organogram of the workplaces. Some women reported that they had got training related to sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. However, they mentioned that they were not aware of WSH:
“Most of the time, they gave direction about customer handling and other issues that affect their business. Sexual harassment is not their business.” (FGD, two years experience in a bar)
Another participant added:
“The pre-work instruction document in hospitality workplaces states all about time management, uniform, customer handling, and others that mainly to maximize their benefit. It is not mentioning anything to keep the right of the women working in these workplaces.” (FGD, four years experience in a restaurant)
Customer handling style, frequent contact with customers, the beauty of the women, and gender norms are the other perceived risks of SH by the participants:
“We are expected to be very friendly and communicative for customers. However, this may lead to a casual relationship.” (FGD, three years experience in a bar)
Another participant added:
“…, women’s natural beauty and their welcoming approach make them more vulnerable to sexual harassment.” (KII (customer), driver)
Behaviors of women working in the hospitality workplaces were also viewed as increasing their WSH’s risk, including transactional sex for financial support. Women and the key informants reported that some women establish relations with men in order to support themselves financially:
“… young women who have no family do transactional sex to cover their expenses for home rent, food, cosmetics & clothes…. By the way, this is because of the lower salary paid by the hospitality workplaces. Perpetrators considered all waitresses like the second group and did sexual harassment to all waitresses.” (IDI, two years experience in the cafeteria)
Some women also create relationships with customers for a specific purpose. They tried to accept invitations, call customers with a nickname, chew gum in front of the customers, show different walking styles, and gratuity (Amharic-gursha). They also keep silent while the customer touches their sensitive body parts, touches the customers back, laugh unnecessarily:
“Chewing gum, accepting dinner, and other invitations by the customer are an indication of desire.” ( FGD, four years experience in a restaurant)
Another participant added:
“The signs of the willingness of the waitresses such as willing to gratuitous, unnecessary laughing, feeling the customers back or face, and nicknaming are also the driving factors.” (IDI, two years experience in a restaurant)
Organization-related factors
Participants respond that some organizations encourage women to wear uniforms or clothing that accentuate their body (breasts, buttocks), encouraged to wear sexually attractive clothing, and encouraged to wear uniforms that reveal their upper legs:
“Some of the hospitality organizations need to make the waitresses as a sexual object. They dress them in short /mini-skirts/ that exposed their body. The uniform is attractive, which can display their collection for attracting customers sexually.” (IDI, four years experience in a cafeteria)
Similarly, respondents noted that the nature of the job, night shifting, perceiving that a customer is a king and always right” were the factors that expose women to different forms of sexual harassment:
“Practically, we women are victims. Whereas customers are considered as kings and always right. I faced such a problem while I complain of sexual harassment to my manager.” (FGD, five years experience in a cafeteria)
On the other hand, lack of a fixed salary scale or small salary, lack of grievance management, and rules and regulations in the hospitality workplaces were also the risk factors:
“The monthly salary for women working in hospitality workplaces is not enough. They cannot afford a dorm, food […], and it has a Burdon on them. To overcome this time, women will negotiate with the perpetrators to get money in exchange for sexual favors.” (KII (cashier), 1-year experience in a restaurant )
Another participant added:
“So far, I did not know organizations working to address such problems and have a formal complaints procedure. There is no special rules and regulation to privilege waitresses safety of sexual harassment in their working place.” (FGD, five years experience in a restaurant)
Manager’s power and influence were also the other organization-related risk factors in some hospitality workplaces:
“Managers/supervisors/owners tried to use their power to harass sexually. If we are not volunteers, they will fire us from the job. If we are volunteers, they will promote to head waiter from an ordinary waitress in exchange for sexual favors.” (FGD, four years experience in a cafeteria )
Society, peer, and policy-related risk factors
Society’s perception, peer sexual pressure, and lack of governmental/professional association which could work on hospitality employee’s sexual and reproductive issues:
“The second is when our friends expose and push us to sexual activities without our willing for the sake of getting incentives (cash and other things) from the perpetrators.” (FGD, two years experience in the cafeteria)
“For those who need to submit the complaint, the statutory institutions want witnesses, and it is unlikely to get any solution for acts such as touching, winking, and fondling. Those who see this act are unwilling to witness due to the fear of not being fired. Even in the existence of a witness, we are not ready to file a complaint. It is due to the long process of the complaint. Mostly, we thought that the legal process takes time and money. The legal bodies act if they see someone is hitting us. I do not think that there is a legal issue with sexual harassment. I think the legal process is not giving solutions.” (IDI, 1-year experience in a cafeteria)
Further, the participants also noted drivers, such as agents (brokers), culture, corruption, easy accessibility of women who could work in hospitality workplaces:
“If someone raped me, I would do nothing. Sometimes, agents/brokers, either the perpetrators or the dealers of the activities. So, it is so difficult to solve the issue with the legal ground. Most of the perpetrators can be able to stop the case with money. Therefore, since it is not simple to take the issue to court, I will not go to court because no one will consider the issue.” (FGD, three years experience in a restaurant)
Another participant added:
“It is known that waitresses are targeted for sexual harassment because of our culture, physical beauty, easy obtainability, and financial problems.” (KII, manager)
Consequences of Sexual harassment
All participants tried to delineate categories of consequences of sexual harassment. These were work-related, health-related (mental health, reproductive health, and reproductive health), family undermining, and financial consequences.
Work-related consequences
Participants reported that job-hop including changing the locality, work withdrawal (lateness, absentees), and being a coffee seller nearby the roads are the effects of frequent SH in the hospitality workplaces:
“It depends. Some may deteriorate. However, some may take the victimization as a sprinting for future life. Some may end in […] and in coffee selling in the street. However, some change their jobs or marry a rich person and become stable in their marriage.” (IDI, 1-year experience in the cafeteria)
Another participant added:
“Once I prefer not to suffer from frequent sexual harassment. I searched and got another waitressing job in another institution. However, it was the same. Then, I changed my job to the barber.” (IDI, one and half year experience in a bar)
Similarly, participants noted that the organizations were failed to have productive workers and lose their dignity due to the frequent sexual harassment occurring in them:
“… It can reduce the organization’s image, dignity, and community acceptance.” (IDI, 1-year experience in a cafeteria)
“It also leads to the loss of productive working group women.” (FGD, four years experience in a restaurant)
Moreover, women employees in hospitality workplaces reported that they sometimes faced job stress, job dissatisfaction, work disrespect, lack of promotion for a better position, and hated the job due to the frequent sexual harassment in some hospitality workplaces.
Some participants reported that they were promoted to a better position, got good recommendation letters, and got married as a result of the harassment they faced and the response they gave (agreement) to the perpetrators:
“The consequences are different. […]. However, some may take the victimization as a sprinting for their future life and may be promoted to a better job position, get good work recommendations in exchange for sexual favors, marry a rich person, and have a stable life.” (IDI, four years experience in a cafeteria)
Health-related consequences
Mental and behavioral consequences
Almost all the participants reported that women working in hospitality workplaces faced mental and behavioral, physical, and reproductive health consequences due to frequent sexual harassment. Participants remarked that the hospitality workplaces’ frequent sexual harassment affected their well-being (psychological, physical, and social (relationship)).
They noted that they felt depressed, not enjoying life, were not optimistic about their future, and failed to control their lives. Again, they noted that they were distressed with their life, felt sad, failed to survive the way they desire, lack self-confidence, lack self-esteem, and felt hopeless about their future:
“…. I considered myself a person who has no value, lost my confidence, thought about suicide, and felt sick of the frequent acts. I hate my work myself and felt that working in hospitality workplaces is a disgrace. I asked myself, how did the perpetrator sexually harass me without recognizing me? Sometimes I just cried. […]. I also thought about my boyfriend’s thoughts.” (IDI, 1-year experience in a bar)
“Mostly, I feel useless, lose my self-confidence, self-esteem, and motivation to work. I might disbelieve and lose even the lawful request of love due to the trauma that I face in the hospitality workplaces.” (IDI, four years experience in a restaurant)
They also reported that they felt unhealthy physically, saw terrible dreams at night, dissatisfied with their daily activities, lacks adequate money to live, hate what they are trifling, and lack the motivation to function in hospitality workplaces:
“I realized that the waitresses lose their trust. They lose their interest in working and discuss their issues. They develop fear and lack of self-confidence, moral disengagement, psychological depression. Then, they withdraw the job, depression, lack of self-esteem, less motivation to work.” (KII (supervisor), two years experience)
Furthermore, they reported that they felt helpless, socially isolated and ignorant, blame themselves, hate themselves, addicted to substances/smoke, careless, felt useless, felt powerless, lack trust, question themselves, and felt ashamed/shy:
“The perpetrators affected my life so badly. I felt guilty, shameful, depressed, and fear every human beings while I moved home with transport, and suffered a terrible dream at night.” (IDI, four years experience in a cafeteria)
Conversely, some reported that they were engaged and built a successful career as a result of a relationship that started with sexual harassment:
“However, some change their jobs or marry a rich person and become stable in their marriage. As a consequence, they could receive a good future.” (IDI, three years experience in a restaurant)
Lastly, some reported that they felt depression, anxiety, stress, had suicidal ideation, and psychological trauma as a result of sexual harassment that happened to them in the hospitality workplaces:
“All these activities make me hate the job and expose me to depression, fear, and self-hate. I feel angry, disturbed, think that I am not a person like others.” (IDI, two years experience in a bar)
Physical health consequences
Some of the participants reported that they were bruised, injured, developed headache, fatigue, and other physical complication (fistula) as a result of some physical forms of sexual harassment:
“… Seven individuals have captured me at a time. Nevertheless, the police saved me though they beat me. I shed blood while he kicked me with his ring worn hand. I lost my phone, neckless, and tip. I also knew a female who faces similar situations. Eight adult individuals had violated her, and she got faint while the 9th individual had started climbing her. After then, she took the illness. Presently, in that respect, is a leakage of fluid from her genital area.” (IDI, six years experience in a cafeteria)
Reproductive health consequences
Participants reported that they developed menstrual disorders, engaged in transactions/commercial sex work, abortion, unwanted pregnancy, and acquired sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including HIV/AIDS:
“Since we may not receive what we wish to have, in this instance, we may practice transactional sex and other social issues. I knew one young woman who was a waitress first and then became a commercial sex worker. This involvement in commercial sex work is one problem.” (FGD, six years experience in a cafeteria)
Other participant added:
“Sexual harassment is also one of the reasons for exposure to HIV/AIDS […] and would be exposed to stigma and discrimination.” (FGD, two years experience in a restaurant)
“Mostly physical and psychological impacts such as depression, menstrual disorder, tiredness, and fear happened to me.” (IDI, two years experience in a bar)
Financial and family undermining consequences
Participants reported that they faced financial problems and family-undermining after they were victimized by sexual harassment in the hospitality workplaces:
“The anger that happened in my workplace due to the unwanted sexual acts made me reflect on my family and disturbed my family relationship.” (IDI, two years experience in a restaurant)
“Frequent sexual harassment leads to job-hop, unwanted pregnancy, and to encounter a different financial crisis, social stigma, HIV/AIDS, and street life.” (KII (customer), driver)