The concept of soft set was extended to $N$-soft set by Fatimah et al. and used as grading system. Bipolar soft sets gave the concept of a binary model of grading. Kamacı and Petchimuchu defined bipolar $N$-soft set but our approach is different from their approach. We defined N-bipolar soft set which extends the concept of bipolar soft set. We explained the notions through some important examples. We discussed some vital definitions and were motivated towards their use and need. We also described some basic algebraic definitions and with their help, we developed the algebraic structure of our proposed model. We give decision making algorithms and applied them to real life examples to motivate towards its application. Conflict analysis has been a vast topic for research. It was first given by Pawlak. The first extension to this model was given by Pawlak itself. Then many researchers extended his idea. We also discussed here the application of $N$-bipolar soft set to conflict analysis. The combination of $N$-bipolar soft set and conflict analysis can give user the best way to decide suitable and feasible action.